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Lili and Erich were our friends from the mid 1960s; we were drawn together initially by common interests in Jewish art and particularly in numismatics. But their warmth and grace extended to our entire family, enriching our lives in so very many ways over the years. Lili's celebrated accomplishments as a calligrapher and artist were shared from the beginning as were Erich's as a printer and linguist. Lili volunteered her expertise as a lecturer for the Harry Friedman Society at the Jewish Museum on several occasions and as a friend she generously donated the fruits of her calligraphic skills to us personally, as she also did for the American Numismatic Society and many other cultural organizations. We will always retain fond memories of Lili and Erich, above all because of the modesty and good will they invariably displayed to all.                      -Ira and Brigitte Rezak                                                                                                 לברכה זיכרון צדיק

When Rudi and I read your email last week, we knew that our world had lost a spark of extraordinary beauty and brightness. 

 

That picture of our dear Lili as a lovely young woman took me back sixty years, almost to the day, when I met Lili for the first time. As a special friend she wrote our wedding invitation. It was a work of art. Rudi always has said that he fell in love with Lili the first time he saw her, and it didn't take me long to discover why and to "fall" for her as well. In all the years that followed, on occasions with family or friends, it was Lili who brought her brightness, her warmth and laughter, her joy in being there ... her gift for us. 

 

Among her colleagues her generosity was legendary; with sage advice, helpful comments and professional connections all shared with an open heart. Lili's enthusiasm and her letter for me containing two beautiful sheets of superb calligraphy; one with lists of books and institutions, the other a list of names and phone numbers with "you must call them" written in red... were what launched my career as an illuminator. Lili has always insisted otherwise but I am certain.

 

We are fortunate to have been counted among Lili's friends and she has enriched our lives.

Barbara and Rudi

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Barbara Wolff   Artist and Illuminator   www.artofbarbarawolff.com

Lili will be most remembered for her warmth, her generosity, and her always positive attitude. She thought of every person as deserving of kindness and respect, and she shared her time, her affection, and her talents freely.

- Rona and Eytan

Lili was such a positive and strong influence on my life—not just in imparting the bit of typographic knowledge I was able to retain, but as a mentor and warm human being.

- Ari Davidow, Hebrew typographer ivritype.com

Lili was such a positive and strong influence on my life—not just in imparting the bit of typographic knowledge I was able to retain, but as a mentor and warm human being.

- Ari Davidow, Hebrew typographer ivritype.com

She was the most kind and generous person. We shared many wonderful times and she was a great inspiration to me as a teacher and as a calligrapher.  

- Ina Saltz

I treasure Lili's cards that she has sent me over the years. They remain with me as part of my precious favorite possessions. Her legacy will live on forever through her design and calligraphy work and her books.

- Audrey Gottlieb  

 I am an admirer whose life has been indelibly influenced through knowing your mother.

(Lili) and I met through Stan Marx’ (RIP) Long Island Book Collectors Seminar, known affectionately to its members as The Sebastian Brant Society. Lili was a regular and creative contributor to this august little group, as was your father until his untimely demise...

Lili will be remembered by me for all my days, not only for her art but for her humour, kindness and sweetest disposition.

- R. Paul Garner

As a friend and mentor, I could not have asked for better.  Her passing will be felt by many, but Lili will never be forgotten she has left her mark on so many. Lili encouraged with love, guided in friendship and caring. Her legacy will live on and I am a better person for knowing Lili. 

- Maureen Peters,

Translated from German: In the obituary you expressed her always friendly, open nature very aptly and beautifully. This is exactly what fascinated me about her from the beginning of our acquaintance in Toronto in 2005 and the following fourteen years of active letter friendship, especially  about her personal fate and her tragic story of "Kinderlandverschickung" ie her expulsion from the beloved Berlin she knew. Her generosity and courageous open-heartedness, which was lived despite everything, was and will be a role model for me, as well as her tireless curiosity, which did not let her rest even in her old age.  - Dr. Antje Neuner-Warthorst

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Lili (aka Mrs Wronker) gave me funny shiny alphabet cookies - one of my favorite (and odd) childhood memories. They were made in Germany and not allowed in my house and because they were German these unbelievably delicious cookies were forbidden for me (which made them even more delicious!) Mrs. Wronker drew pictures of me and she gave a record about Purim (I still remember two of the songs). She inspired me to have better handwriting (oh yes, she did!). She showed me pictures of a civilized Germany, a Germany that existed before they slaughtered all of their Jews. I loved visiting Rona's & Eytan's house - it was a rabbit's warren of books and art and limitlessly fascinating things. Who has Roman coins, a printing press and wishnicks in their living room?! Mrs. Wronker was a gentle woman, a kind woman and a very inspiring person.

- Peter Antinoph

I think back to Lili with love. She was one of the most wonderful people I have met in my life. But I would also like to especially thank Rona for this wonderful website and the magical photo of Lili that you put on the first page. 
Ich denke voller Liebe an Lili zurück. Sie war einer der wunderbarsten Menschen, denen ich in meinem Leben begegnen durfte. Ich möchte aber auch ganz besonders Rona für diese wunderschöne Webseite und das zauberhafte Foto von Lili danken, dass ihr auf die erste Seite gestellt habt. 
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Prof. Dr. Stefan Appelius, Berlin

Lilli was a very, caring beautiful young woman during my time at Stoatley Rough School during WWII in Haslemere England . I remember her helping me during some difficult times. She was a wonderful artist and belonged to the BIG Girl group by us sub teen boys. - John Obermeyer

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